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Flying T-39s at Tan Son Nhu Air Base – Saigon, Vietnam

It’s a shame that wars can’t be decided by the side that sings the best songs! – Ashleigh Brilliant

We all have stories. Some are exciting, some are engaging, some are motivating, and some are boring. My book, Turning Final, A Life Complete, is a collection of stories (some of which are both motivating and boring at the same time!). The following is the story of how I ended up flying T-39s out of Saigon, and was actually given a CHOICE for a military assignment.


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The Life of a Military Vet – Part I

The Air Force Cross is awarded for actions during the Vietnam War.

When I am out in society, living my day-to-day life, no one knows I am a veteran. Unless, of course, I wear my ball cap with an F-86 on it. With the hat on, people will stop and ask me if I was a pilot. Sometimes they will thank me for my service. At every other moment, my status as a veteran is unknown. I’m sometimes asked it people treat me differently because I’m a veteran. Again, only with the hat on.

Shortly after I returned from Vietnam I was reassigned  to Key West as the commander of a radar squadron stationed on the island base.  One day, my family was driving to Key West in our station wagon – the four boys, my wife and myself.  Passing through  a small Gulf Coast town, I was pulled over by a young policeman.  He asked to see my driver’s license, and when he saw my military I.D. card he asked if I was in the Air Force; I replied that I was. He then asked if I had ever run across a friend of his and he gave me the name.  It so happened he was in my outfit in Vietnam and I knew him well.  When I told him this, the young cop that he went bonkers. He said that guy was the best friend he had in the world and that they had grown up together. He told me that as children, they were inseparable.

I said a silent prayer thanking God for this one in a million chance to get out of a ticket – it was my lucky day! The officer went on for five or six minutes telling me all about our mutual friend and then ended up with “Gee! I’m really sorry I have to do this.” He gave me the ticket.

Life as a military vet isn’t much different from the life of an ordinary citizen. We all face difficulties in life. We drive cars, go to the grocery store, grill out during the summer months and do our best to live as well as we can. I wear my hat to remind myself of where I’ve been and what I’ve done. I don’t wear it to receive special treatment.

Writing My Life’s Story

I really enjoyed writing Turning Final, A Life Complete, because it gave me the opportunity to relive many of my life’s experiences.

The question I am asked most frequently is, “how do you remember so much detail and so many incidents that you have experienced?”

I respond that about two years before I started writing the book, I carried a day timer around with me every where I went.  When I thought of an incident that I felt was “write worthy,” I jotted down a one line memory jogger because as you go through each day your memory brings up incidents that you have been involved with and then you lose them and can’t get them back. When I started to write the book, I had over 400 one line  memory joggers of incidents that I thought were write worthy. I used about 2/3 of them.

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